The pupose of marrying

 My parents had 4 children, 3 girls and 1 boy. I was a youngest one, and a girl.
I used to hear a lot from grandma since I was a little. The ward is "I wish you are a boy."
The word hurt my little heart very much, even I knew she loved me a lot.

That made me to  think about so many things.
Why are there man and woman in the world?
Why do my friends in the school have dad and mom like I do? , and so on.

I asked so many questions for my family members. And then I realized no one could answer.

When I was around 10, I asked again to Mom. "Why did you bear me?"
Of course there was no answer.

When I was a High school kids, my mind was full of questions.
Why am I living?
Why do I study?
Where am I going?
Does life mean just repeating a eating & sleeping?

When I was 21, Divine Principle answered to my all questions.

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The purpose of marrying







 We marry to resemble the form of God. God exists with dual characteristics of masculinity and femininity. He is a unified being in whom both characteristics exist together in harmony. Men and women were created to reflect the dual characteristic of God. Therefore, a man and a woman should come together in complete unity and harmony, become like the seed, and return to the state of the original nature of God.

 Men and women are each only half of a whole entity. Therefore women must conquer the wold of men and men must conquer the world  of woman. They come to resemble God by joining their separate manifestations of God's dual characteristics back together through love.
God and people are to unite based on the love between subject and object partners. The reason God has dual characteristics is also because of love.

A man should know that the woman standing in front of him is God's daughter and the feminine aspect of humanity. Before she is my wife, she belongs to humankind. Only if you can love her as a woman who is loved by humanity and love her as God's beloved daughters, are you qualified to be her husband.Woman are the same. Do not think,"He is my man." Think of him as God son and as a man representative all humankind. You have to love and serve him more than humanity does and more than God does.

In the unification church, we call marriage the "Blessing". The life of a married person is such that a man and woman who had been alone on their path to seek love abandon that path and stand as complement to each other - comforting each other when they feel lonely , sharing joy together when  they feel joy and giving each other strength during difficulties. In this way, one becomes the right foot and the other the left; one becomes the right hand and other the left. Together they praise God, saying they are moving forward with God's love superimposed on the theater of their lives.