What is happiness?, and where does it come from?

 Everyone seeks happiness. And there are many kind of happiness. But I think that happiness comes from the relationship with others.
Also sadness comes from relationship. That means how to make good relationship is crucial  for our life. 

               

 Let me tell you my experience.
I worked last 2 weekend in the Japanese Market  this February. When I was doing the cash register, a man came up to me, and asked to exchange his broken $10 to the nice one. I said "I don't think so, a bank cannot accepts that, but can you go to the customer service?" He started screaming and shouting so loud. So I exchanged it. But I felt so bad. I guess almost everyone has this kind of experience.

 There are negative or  positive spirit in the cosmos. There are good or better kind people and evil or worse kind of people in the world. We can say that the person makes others happy, he or she is good person, and the opposite case is bad one. I guess we can be sometime  good persons and sometime not.

 The most important point is how to react when we faced to the evil force.

 The night I found Rev. Moon's word ' Never fight, never take offence and just understand others.'
I have realized that this is the meaning of  "living for sake of others".

 Then finally I could find sympathy for him in my heart. And I got peace again in myself.

Life is too short to be selfish. ---<Rev. Moon>